How To Deal With Toxic Behaviour In Relationships & Build Healthy Lasting Love.

Discover how to be loved, accepted and respected in all your relationships.
Go from disappointment, constraint & criticism to joy, freedom and a sense of possibility.

Download our FREE PDF guide: “5 Ways To Deal With Toxic Behaviour In Relationships (And Start Creating the Healthy Lasting Love You Deserve)”If you’ve found yourself stuck in a pattern where you're repeating toxic, dysfunctional, confusing, or unfulfilling relationships. Then this guide is here to help you to find ways to break the pattern.

Created by Colin C. McKay, author of My Psychopathic Romance & Healthy Lasting Love™, this powerful resource shares helpful insights and tools to start making positive change.

To fix it, you need to be aware of it, by learning to spot the red flags early enough!
Understanding the unconscious payoff, what’s the benefit or secondary gain?
Know yourself, honour yourself! What's them, what's you and what's the chemistry between you?
Establishing your boundaries, what core values are driving your choices?
You must know what you want and believe you can have it, to create the healthy lasting love you deserve.

It's time to stop repeating… and start rewriting.

Let this be your first step toward

Healthy Lasting Love™

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Discover the path to healthy, lasting love after a dysfunctional toxic relationship with expert tools, coaching, and programs rooted in neuroscience, emotional recovery, and intentional transformation.

Real Love - Real Tools - Real Results

What's the personal impact and what does it all mean? When a relationship has no where to go, what do you do? Is the only path backwards or can you see your way forwards?

It stops when you realise that it starts and ends with you. The partners you attract are directly aligned to what we believe you deserve. Changing that belief Changes your outcomes!

If you find yourself in a love that has dysfunctional elements to it. Then fixing it, will not break it, if it is indeed meant to be. The key factor is whether or not both people are taking part!

Healthy Lasting Love™ Live 2 Day Relationship Coaching Event

Training Course Content

Learn how your attraction strategies are formed from early childhood.
Discover what self limiting beliefs and negative emotional associations are keeping you stuck.
What to avoid! Psychopaths, Narcissists and the emotionally unavailable.
Fine tuning your red flag radar and the reasons you may have downplayed them in the past.
Understand emotional associations how they impact your choices and how to let them go!
How the Healthy Lasting Love™ forgiveness model works to create foundational inner healing
Learn the 3 most important things to ensure that you never again create or maintain a problem.
Establishing boundaries and how to commit to them and effectively communicate them.
What's your love language and deep love strategy, and what's the difference that makes the difference.
How to create your future love and relationship roadmap by design. No longer accepting what's simply been given by default.

This live 2 day training has a limit of 20 participants.

7th & 8th March 2026

Barnett Hill Hotel, Guildford, Surrey

Email your name and best contact number to

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To arrange a free 30 minute coaching call to help interested participants identify their specific goals, challenges, and emotional patterns.

Book 2 Day Delegate Pass - 6th & 7th March 2026

Working with Colin McKay has been nothing short of transformational. His friendly, humorous, and deeply engaging approach to training and personal development is absolutely infectious. Colin has supported me with such enthusiasm and authenticity throughout my personal development journey. His ability to create a safe, uplifting space for growth is truly special, and his insights have helped me unlock new levels of clarity and confidence.

If you’re considering working with him, I can wholeheartedly say: you’ll be better for it.

Del Walsh

Before coaching with Colin, I was stuck in a cycle of unhealthy habits that weren't serving me. After working with Colin, I learned skills and methods to communicate my needs effectively instead of avoiding conflict. I'm no longer afraid to speak my mind, and it's led to a more confident and authentic version of myself that my partner, friends and colleagues genuinely respects

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My Psychopathic Romance

If you're finding yourself stuck in a toxic and dysfunctional love cycle, feeling that you're being manipulated by the very person that should care for you the most. You're self esteem and self worth at an all time low having been eroded away, inch by inch, as you slowly loose sight of who you really are?

Or do you never seem to get it right, every relationship you create seems to end up the very same way. As you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners or narcissists, even although you should by now know better?

Then this book may well hold the key you're looking for to help you to evolve your way out of this dysfunctional loop!

My Psychopathic Romance is a powerful, no-nonsense guide to understanding and breaking free from destructive relationship patterns and building the tools for a healthy lasting love.

Written by a professional coach and advanced NLP trainer Colin C. McKay, this book combines deep insight with proven coaching techniques to help you to recognise hidden psychological patterns that pull you unconsciously like a magnet, towards toxic individuals.

Whether you're trying to leave a painful relationship, heal from one, or avoid repeating the same pattern again, this book will show you how. This is not just about love. It’s about coming home to yourself. If you’re ready to stop surviving destructive love and start thriving through loving connection, this book could easily be your next step.

A WORD FROM THE AUTHOR & PERSONAL GROWTH COACH

WORKED WITH

Colin McKay

Founder & Coach

Colin is a warm, dynamic trainer with a passion for the power of language and human potential. A master of NLP, Conversational Hypnosis, and Time Line Therapy™, he brings over 25 years of real-world leadership experience to every session. Known for his practical, engaging style, Colin blends deep psychological insight with real-world coaching expertise. Having trained with world-leading experts across the globe, he’s now a masterful trainer dedicated to creating lasting transformation. Through Life Training Systems Ltd, he’s developed unique models like Q.U.A.L.I.T.Y™ Coaching and Advanced Linguistic Influencing™ that empower real, measurable change.